Two stories hit earlier this week, and it is interesting to compare them. On Tuesday, Representative Mark Souder of Indiana, a Republican, and "an evangelical Christian who promoted abstinence education and was known for his outspoken views on religion," announced that he would be resigning from Congress because he had had an affair with a part-time member of his staff. Mr. Souder said, in part:
"It is with great regret I announce that I am resigning from the U.S. House of Representatives ….
I can never fully thank all those who have worked so hard, given so much and supported me through eight contested primaries and eight general elections. Only when you have been the recipient can you really feel the humbling power of such generosity. …
It has been all consuming for me to do this job well, especially in a district with costly, competitive elections every two years. I do not have any sort of ‘normal’ life –for family, for friends, for church, for community.
To serve has been a blessing and a responsibility given from God. I wish I could have been a better example."
On Monday, The New York Times reported that Connecticut Attorney General Richard Blumenthal, a Democrat who is running for Chris Dodd’s Senate seat, has on more than one occasion stated that he served in Vietnam when he did not. In response, Mr. Blumenthal said, in part:
"On a few occasions I have misspoken about my service, and I regret that and I take full responsibility. But I will not allow anyone to take a few misplaced words and impugn my record of service to our country. … Unlike many of my peers, I chose to join the military and serve my country. I am proud of my service in the United States Marine Corps Reserve."
The New York Times reported that Mr. Blumenthal "said that the errors were ‘totally unintentional’ and that he had made them only a few times in hundreds of public appearances."
While Abraham Lincoln said, in his Second Inaugural, "let us judge not, that we be not judged," it is fascinating to compare these two situations and to consider: Who do you feel sorrier for? Or, alternatively, which one of these situations bothers you more?
Some may feel that my views are tainted because I am a Republican, and they may be right, but let me have a go at it.
First, consider Representative Souder’s situation. Some Democrats, and some political junkies, are gleeful. Politico wrote about it as yet another scandal involving the Republican class of 1994.
Of course, in their glee at Representative Souder’s situation, Democrats are not remembering their defense of Bill Clinton. Back then, it was just sex. It was personal; it had nothing to do with his job.
Also, Democrats tell Republicans that, if they criticized President Clinton, they have to do the same with Representative Souder. Of course, the Democrats are forgetting that at least part of former President Clinton’s problem was that he lied under oath, something that Representative Souder has not been accused of. Also, Representative Souder resigned.
But probably the biggest criticism of Representative Souder is that it was hypocritical for him to talk about abstinence, etc., when he was shacking up with a staffer.
But I am not sure it was hypocrisy. It may have been, but I don’t know. If Representative Souder really did not mean what he said about abstinence, etc., if he just said it to get elected, but he didn’t believe it, then it is hypocrisy. But if Representative Souder does believe that adultery is wrong, if he really does believe in abstinence, then maybe he isn’t a hypocrite; maybe he is just human. Nobody is perfect. We all do things that we know we shouldn’t do; we all commit sins. Just because we don’t live up to our principles does not mean we are hypocrites. It just means we aren’t perfect. In fact, if we set our principles only at the level we know we can meet, then our standards wouldn’t be very high. The fact is that real achievement comes from setting high goals and high standards and then trying to live up to them, even though you fail now and then.
If we claim we believe in principles and then don’t try to live up to them and don’t care if we live up to them, that is hypocrisy. But if we try and fail and feel remorse for our failure, that is not hypocrisy. That is just being human.
As I said above, I don’t know which category Representative Souder fits into. He seems to be genuinely remorseful. He has resigned. For now I will give him the benefit of the doubt and say he is a human and not a hypocrite.
Which brings us to Attorney General Blumenthal. I do not know if it is because he is a Democrat or what, but I am having a harder time understanding what Attorney General Blumenthal did.
Attorney General Blumenthal is definitely responding differently that Representative Souder did. Of course, maybe that is because what Attorney General Blumenthal did isn’t as bad as what Representative Souder did. Attorney General Blumenthal is saying that it was just slip of the tongue, that it was a mistake, that it only happened a few times. It does seem that an entire political career should not be thrown overboard for a couple of mistakes. On the other hand, the argument that it was a slip of the tongue would be more convincing if it hadn’t happened more than once. Slips of the tongue happen, but one might think that after the first time, Attorney General Blumenthal would have tried harder to make sure it didn’t happen again.
Attorney General Blumenthal has been a big supporter of veterans. He goes to soldiers’ funerals, talks to veterans groups, supports veterans’ issues. It could be that, in some way, he now feels bad that he received all those deferments and that he was just in the Marine Corps Reserve.
But perhaps the most interesting comment on this situation was not made by either those who attacked Attorney General Blumenthal or those who defended him. Instead, it may have been what former U.S. Representative Chris Shays said, according to The New York Times:
"Former Representative Christopher Shays of Connecticut, a Republican who says he is a good friend of Richard Blumenthal’s, said in an interview Tuesday that he had watched with worry as Mr. Blumenthal gradually embellished his military record over the years.
As prominent Democrats in the state rallied to Mr. Blumenthal’s side on Tuesday, saying they had never seen him describe himself as a Vietnam veteran or chalking such misstatements up to a momentary lapse, Mr. Shays’s comments appeared to bolster the idea that Mr. Blumenthal’s descriptions of his military record had been somewhat embroidered, bit by bit, with the passage of time. …
Mr. Shays, a 10-term incumbent who lost a re-election bid in November 2008, was a conscientious objector during the Vietnam War. He said he and Mr. Blumenthal began their careers in politics at roughly the same time and frequently addressed the same groups. He recalled that early on, Mr. Blumenthal spoke humbly about his military record, rarely discussing it and always making clear that he had held only desk jobs and had not been in the line of fire, though he remained proud of having been a Marine.
‘But as time went on, he would mention it more often, and Vietnam would show up,’ even when Mr. Blumenthal was not speaking to veterans, Mr. Shays said. …
‘If he’d stuck with what he said 30 or 20 years ago, he wouldn’t be in the trouble he’s in now,’ Mr. Shays said. ‘He was a Marine. Nobody can take that away from him, but he never tried to play it up other than to say that he was a Marine.’"
So what about Attorney General Blumenthal? I don’t know yet. The answer may be less in what he said, or over-said, in the past and more in how he reacts now and what he says in the future. Will he sincerely apologize? Or will he treat it as just another political attack, to be refuted and defended against? In this year of the anti-politician, one wonders if admission and apology might work better than aggressive defense. But then, I am a Republican, so I may not be the best person to give advice to Attorney General Blumenthal.
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